OK I know I probably sound like a right drama queen, but I have most recently gotten back with my ex girlfriend who for the last year I have claimed that I am in love with and want to marry etc. I am currently in a show and before getting back with my ex I had a thing with someone in it. Last night me and that person got together again and I have spent the most compfortable, lovelyt day with them. So yes that's right I am a cheater! I know its terrible, but now I'm so confused. Because with this other girl I can be myself more than ever, in all ways. But with my girlfriend I kind abecome a bit of who she wants me to be. My girlfriend is young also and this other girl is older than me. My rpob is do I risk getting rid of my girlfriend after spnding the last year ona and off wanting her back so bad, or start something p with this new girl who it just feels so right with?

How about you leave both them alone and clear you head and think about what you want and the definition of a relationship because cheating isn't cool and unfair to the other person and if your going be with someone control your actions.

Sru, We've been through a lot together on this forum eh? So I'm not going to pull and punches with you. Ready?

Leave them both alone and get yourself worked out. You see a future with your ex, but can be yourself with the new girl which leads me to believe you don't know what you really want out of a relationship. Take some time to recoup and understand your feelings, you got all caught up with your ex then gave into temptation. I don't think you know what you want so until you do, save those girls the heartache

You are not doing the right thing for yourself or for either of the women. Figure it out before you drag either of them further into something.

Your right! Your all right , I know what I got to do.