Originally Posted by 1confused1
so i'm seeing a married man, we've been "together" for about a year and a half. He's told me he loves me, and i really believe i love him too. his wife already knows about us, but doesn't have proof. he's not looking to leave his wife because of the divorce and starting all over with a house and giving alimony. he's asked me on several occassions if it's getting to hard for me, to which i don't respond. he always says that he doesn't want to hurt me, but it hurts everytime when he says he loves me. i need advice.:confused: