if your child doesn't want to see you anymore, and the court order says they have to, can the mother stop them, she is thirteen, and she is saying as well she doesn't want to see me, do I still have to pay child support, not that I don't want to it's the x way of getting more money from me, I would rather set up a bank account for my daughter so when she does want to see me I have some money for her to give her a start in life