When a person values the relationship more than the other person, do you think this can change over time? Or how can you make it more reciprocal? Or can you?

Who is valuing the relationship more; you or her?

I value the relationship more?

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Originally Posted by Teaching

When a person values the relationship more than the other person, do you think this can change over time? or how can you make it more reciprocal? or can you?

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This is an easy answer for me, I am living proof that it can happen. Pationce is very important, also you need to develop an attitude of indifferance, just let it roll off your sholders, practice vizualization by, one; close your eyes and picture things the way you want them to be, two; write it down in as much detail as you can, than reread often and what ever you do believe it can happen with every fibber of your being. You need not tell the other person you are even doing this. I do not know if you believe in God but if you do God promissed what so ever you ask for in Jesuses name that will God do, and God never breaks his promisses. Good luck, God bless and protect you. Your newest friend Beverly Novak