I have two very good men in my life but I need to choose but how how do I choose between the two.

Well u first ask yourself
"who is the person that have feelings for you"
"who is the person that really undestand your problems your felling and ect..."

If both are the same will just keep on seeing which guy is the best one for u...

Just take your time don't rush...

Don't talk to them for some time.. conduct a self test... see whom you miss more! Aah! Am I sounding crazy! But your q requires this reply!! Also get to know in that period how they face the gap..

Honestly, you never would have to make a choice for your partner, if he's there, you know he's there... it will never take you to chose between people to decide who you have feelings for or who is meant for you. That never happens, if it does, you probably are not listening to your conscience that well.