Help I think my boyfriend of 10 years is gay!
I really think my boyfriend is down low. I have been seeing signs. He has a tattoo on his lower leg, he wears a earring in his left ear, he wears women deodorant,he carries eyedrops,uses chapstick, flexes in the mirror a lot and he has this male friend that when we are not together he is always with him or calling him! He gets really excited when he is around him; it really makes me uncomfortable. Every time we have an argument he calls this friend or his friend butts in! Also, I have heard from two people that was at the same prison he was in that he was messing around with sissies and I ask him about it and he said that they said that because they wanted to holla at me I don't believe him why would two people lie to me? They have no reason too! He says that him and his male friend have been knowing each other for over twenty years but he doesn't hang with his other friends like that and he had been knowing them the same amount of time. Recently me and his male friend had an argument because he is always in our arguments he knows when he gets paid he even knows what goes on in our relationship he tells him everything! One time he came home with three condoms in his pocket and said he was with this male friend all day and he fell asleep at his house we don't use condoms! Also, I did his laundry one time and it looked like a dried white substance near the crack of his briefs. He works out of town and when he came back to town his friend pick him up and when I looked through his suitcase there was only one condom let me remind you he was with his friend and when he came home the two condoms were in his pocket! I recently confronted the two with my allegations and they were extremely upset and threatened to shoot me! I broke up with him two days ago and put him out! I told his friends girlfriend but she didn't believe me. Could someone please tell me what you think I have no proof but my intuition is eating me up I can't ignore it!