Seem to have gotten into a.love triangle. Was with a girl and her child for 5 years, we split as I had financial troubles and lost everything. Went through bankruptcy, met her again 7 months later and feelings were there.. both sides.
She is 39, I am 40 and she has a 64 year old boyfriend, her former tennis trainer. We met, she cried said she missed me, still loved me. Met her child and the relationship was like it always had bybeen. The kid wouldn't let me.go when it was.time.to.go.and cried for me.to.come home. She has a very dominant mother and father who live in an apartment next to hers, they're best friends with the old tennis teacher and they hate me which I understand. The financial.situation was a burden for all and they're wealthy.
We kept up daily contact but in January, she left their home and moved in with her 64 year old. Two months later she is living with me for 4 happy months. The relationship between the old man and her kid wasn't good.. She wanted a family life. Now she goes dancing with the old guy every weekend and spends the night at his while I have her kid. The jealousy is killing me, people are.asking me what's going on all the time. Sometimes she goes to.school with him and the kid, other days I bring the kid.
I asked her to stop hurting me and she said I have a choice l, accept it that he is her fun and I am her family or throw it away.
I love her kid, she calls me.dad. Not saying she is at fault, just not sure what to.do. Don't think I could handle.seeing her kid after the relationship which she said I could. She says the.other guy is happy now with just social life and I am.trying to lock her in and take.her freedom. Just no idea where I am or.what to.do.