I took out a 50-B on my soon to be ex-husband and an assault charge. Our court date is in one day and he has hired one of the most powerful attorneys in our town. I do have an attorney as well. His lawyer called me last week and wanted to speak with my lawyer (so we do not have to go to court). If I consent to an agreement that he will stay away from me, my house, my work, etc. and do not go before the judge, will it still hold its weight? Am I better off going to court?