My husband of twenty five years died suddenly a year ago. His best friend who was married same amount of time but divorced ten years ago came back strong and supportive in my life.
He recently about 18 months ago, had his ex wife move back in the home to help with a wayward teen, and they tried to put the relationship back together, and after a year they both became aware same issues cropped up.
He and I have always been close, And have gotten closer . I told him to stay away until she moves out, not call me. I am sad and miss my friend and the life we could have, but am firm in my mind she must be gone. He wants me to be patient as she try's to relocate, but I won't wait and see.
I know if its me he wants, he has to do it alone with no influence from me. I miss him. Right thing I did?