My girlfriend claims to have never had an orgasm in her life?
I have dated my girfriend for over 6 months now (I'm 26 and she's 21) and we've done just about everything sexually and she has not once orgasimed... and she claims that she's never even had an orgasm ever in her WHOLE LIFE even from herself masturbating... which I find hard to conceive, but she has stuck to that story repeatedly. I've done things with her (such as oral or very long lasting healthy sex uncountable times) of that when I've done the equivalent with past girlfriends it would ALWAYS give them orgasims, but with present girlfriend - doesn't work. She doesn't like receiving oral. She's willing (and I am too) to do sexual counseling of some sort, but is there such a thing? She has trust issues as her past (and only other) boyfriend cheated on her deceptively the whole they went out (two years) and she was very hurt (heartbroken) when she finally found out. Also, she used to "cut" herself as a child and has some marks on her forearms... she says she had trouble feelign anything... even when she cut herself... I asked her numerous times if she was ever abused sexually or physically in any form and she's assured me that she was never (she hasn't cut herself for years). Her parents are very wealthy and they sent her to live with a stranger Nanny in the USA (she's from Hong Kong) since 5th grade and I believe she has some possible unsolved abandonment issues and her Nanny was very controlling meaning didn't want her to have a life or hang out with family friends in the States in fear that she'd become independent or something like that and then wouldn't need her/the Nanny... I have been as loving and nurturing and comforting as I can conceive, but still no results... Is there any hope for my girlfriend to have orgasm?