He had sex with someone else before we became exclusive and I can't overcome it!
I have been dating this guy for 11 months and this past weekend he finally made a commitment to me and we decided to become exclusive. He told me he wants me to meet his family and I'm just so happy. I could really see myself with him for a long time.. hopefully forever. The problem is, he told me that he had sex with another woman twice while dating me.
I understand that we were not exclusive but I always wanted to and he was the one with commitment issues. I never pressured him and I actually only asked him for a commitment once but he said he wasn't sure and wanted to spend more time with me.
Anyway, I can't seem to get over this. I keep thinking about it and wondering what she had over me. I feel betrayed and hurt. He told me how they met and now I'm even over thinking it more.. She even has pictures of the two of them posted on Facebook. Honestly, I'm a very mature 25 year old female but right now I feel very small and don't understand why I can't shake this off.
I really feel like I'm falling in love with this man and we are finally in a good place that I've wanted for so long. How can I overcome this? Any advice is helpful!