A guy with no emotions - driving me crazy
I have been dating someone since 2 months. Since I had a breakup (about 5 months ago), I was not ready for any sorts of commitment with this guy and we agreed to see how things go for a year. He said that I could go out and meet other people though he said he didn't want to and that he would like to focus on one person at a time. He claimed to be someone who never loved anyone romantically and who doesn't have emotions, but cares for people who are important to him. He also was someone who never really enjoyed sex in his life and was not even sexually active for years. I found him very interesting since he was very honest and upfront about things. Though I told him that his lack of emotions and no sex are something I am concerned about, he said that's how he was. However, in the first one month, since I was not into him much, he really tried to chase me. He would send me texts, update me about how his day was going, or send me videos and photos of him etc. Though I was meeting people here and there, I never had any real interest in dating anyone else, since I clearly started liking him a lot. I insisted that he date others as well, since I was not being fair otherwise. When the second month started, he started meeting people, and I kind of stopped meeting anyone else. I was clearly very much interested in him. Also, he started having sex with me (since I insisted), and he started enjoying it. Honestly, I would still believe that he wasn't into sex before, from the way he had it with me the first time, it was very evident that he didn't have much of an experience. Things started to change after a month. He would come stay with me most of the time, and we would have sex. He still doesn't know if it is me that has caused him to enjoy sex, or if i fixed some mental blockage for him. He is in his late 20s and he apparently has never lasted for more than a minute or so and he never felt like having sex with anyone else before, except that he likes other intimate acts of making out and other things, excluding intercourse.
He also went on one or two dates, and he was quite excited about meeting this one girl, and he said he is talking to other people. I asked him now that we have spent some time together let us focus on us first and then later we can think of being open about meeting others. But he didn't agree and he said he is okay about me seeing others or doing whatever I wanted to and that he expects the same from me as well. He said he was 200% confident that no matter who I meet, I would still go back to him. He very well knew that I was giving him a lot of importance. In the last one or two weeks, his frequency of texts reduced. He wouldn't text like how he used to before. If I ask, he says that's how he is and that, for him there is no place for emotions, and that's not how he shows care. However, when we are together his actions show that he really likes me. He definitely would be busy at work, but he wouldn't even send one single text during the day to ask if everything is okay. If he is free, he would be willing to hang out with me (for dinner or outing or at home relaxing). But I kind of feel that the chase for him is over and the initial excitement is over. When we are apart, there is hardly any texts, when we are together we have a good time. I am kind of feeling that I am being taken for granted. I don't know if I am overthinking, or is two months too early for anyone to get attached (we spent on an average 4 days together in a week). What are your thoughts on this?