So I can't ask a question without giving some back story and I need advice.
So my girlfriend and I were together for 3 years and then some and we were living together for 2 1/2. Things didn't pan out the way we wanted and she broke up with me. So about a year goes by and we kept in touch, saw other people and hung out a few times because I loved her I was never serious about any of the girls I was seeing because I wanted her. So she leaves the guy she was seeing saying that she never cared about him and whatever to get back with me. So I give it another try and we get back together and I'm so happy. Also we talked about when her lease is up a year from now and talked about her moving in and she wanted to.
About 8 months goes by and I notice that she isn't as affectionate as she used to be when we were first together and I've talked about this with her as we have a very good communication in our relationship and she just said she's sorry and she'll work on it. So we were hanging out last night and we were talking about getting married and our other friends relationships and their problems. And the next day we wake up and she says to me that she isn't happy and that she needs time away from our relationship to figure out why. She says ever since we broke up the first time she felt numb and that it has nothing to do with me and she still loves me. But when I ask her if we're going to get back together she says hopefully.
I don't know how to take that and I tried to say that maybe we could go to counseling and she says that it's not us it's her. That she wants time away to figure out why she can't be happy. So my question is what do I do or how do I take that? I love her very much an she claims that there is no one else and that she loves me and that she doesn't want to see other people. So what should I do being as though I care about her more then anything?
Sorry for the long post.
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