Not sure what I should be thinking about/doing in this situaiton.
My boyfriend will be graduating from university in April. He will be a certified 3rd class power engineer. He has multiple job opportunities that he can take. He applied for company A in November. This job wouldn't require him to move but it's a 6 month grad position with a possibility that it won't be permanent.(Although its looking more and more like it will be) There's also a fly in camp job available on rotating 14 on 7 off shifts 2-4 hours away.
Now my boyfriend was initially really excited about the job with company A but since he found this other job, he seems to be really thinking hard about what he wants.I honestly don't want to part ways with him but I would see him a max of a week out of every month. I understand that this might be chances of a lifetime, so don't want to hold the guy back. But at the same time I want to be able to continue a fulltime relationship with him. I know that he genuinely cares about what I have to say and he wants to be with me, but I'm wondering if the allure of money is going to be too strong to resist.
I'm just wondering what your thoughts are on the situation, how I should handle it, if you've ever been in this type of pickle, what you did and how did it work out? Any wisdom that I might be able to pass on to him? A different angle on the whole thing?