Gated community living for my parents and I will be charged to go visit them
My parents, in their 80's, live in a gated retirement community park, we want to go visit them, my husband I are 60 years old, but we have just been informed that if we stay longer than 72 hours, we would have to pay $20.00 a day per person for each day we are there. They live in Arizona and we live in North Dakota. My Mother has some health issues and I was going o go down there to assist her for a month, but we can't afford those rates. Yes they said family is charged too, as in meaning us as her 60 year old children. Even if we were caring for her.
Is this the norm, when people own their own home in these gated communities, and now that my Mother is elderly and I have to pay to visit her?