How to get a girl w/ boyfriend?
Hello all,
Here is the situation I am in. So I knew this girl since middle school but hadn't seen her in over 6 years. I began speaking to her on Facebook and we ended up going out to dinner one night and having a greatttt time. During one of our discussions she mentioned she has a boyfriend. That sucked to hear but I had to keep the ball rolling so I played it cool. She has told me before that she has tried to break up with him and he wouldn't let her and also seems to always point out his flaws. While out to dinner I asked her if she would accompany me to a friends wedding as my date and she willing accepted the invite. We end up going to this wedding Im thinking "just as friends". We get some drinks in us and continually get more and more comfortable around each other until it got to a point where she was holding my hand while we were walking around and I had my arms wrapped around her while talking to people. We ended up back at my place where I had a gathering. As soon as we get there she is sitting on my countertop and pulls me between her legs and we began making out. She persisted to get more and more aggressive while kissing me and we were both getting really grabby with one another.;) I then was talking to friends for a bit and she decided that she was drunk and wanted to go home because she didn't know many people. I ended up having someone follow me to her house to give me a ride back so she didn't have to drive home drunk. We talked the next morning and were laughing about the previous night and she "claimed" she didn't remember anything after the wedding reception which I know she remembers kissing ( I don't care how drunk you are, when something like that happens you have memories). Anyway I invite her out to a friends pool party that day and she said she was too sick and couldn't get out of bed. We were still laughing at this point in the conversation. About an hour after getting off the phone I look at her Facebook status and it says she is going out of town to visit her boyfriend with a smiley face. Now my question is, how do I get this gorgeous girl to leave her boyfriend to be with me? I mean I am pretty sure I could get her to dump him but I want to make sure if she did that I had it secured and want to make it so she really wants to be with me. How do I pull something like that off? I really like this girl and always have. Don't get me wrong, I am not a person who can't get a date and doesn't ever have girlfriends to where I don't know how to pick them up. I am not desperate at all I just really like this girl and don't want to mess anything up. I have a few obstacles to overcome like her moving 3 hours away for grad school this August. So I need to make a move and make it happen quickly otherwise Im going to be upstream without a paddle. PLEASE help... I need intelligent expect advice. Thank You so much for any advice you may have!