Can I get back with my ex-girlfriend after 2 months of no contact?
My ex-girlfriend decided to breakup with me 2 days after valentines because we had an argument. She said she got tired of constant arguying with me and asked me if we could be friends and take a break.
I told her I cannot be friends but I would allow a break. She did this over the phone which I find being a cowardly act and shallow. Later that evening I wrote her an e-mail telling her I blocked her on msn and deleted her from my Facebook. She replied saying that she did not want me to block her litteraly out of my life and that knowing I would still be around for her would be comforting.
She then text messaged me the same thing, and I replied ''Are we on a break or not?'' and she replied ''Ok I won't text message you anymore''. About 8 days later she e-mailed me : '' Hi just wanted to drop a line saying Hello, I am doing OK and I hope you are too, Give me some news, if you don't want to I completely understand.'' I did not reply right away. I waited exactly a week and I wrote '' I am OK now, glad you are too, are you enjoying the break?'' and she never replied to this e-mail.
4 weeks later I had an apointment at the dental clinic where she works as receptionist. So I had to see her, no choice. The minute I went in, she greeted me like if nothing happened, '' Hello how are you? how are you doing?'' and she looked happy and like she moved on. I was feeling horrible, I tried to keep the conversation short and just be polite and didn't ask her too many questions. She told me she gained weight and I told her I lost weight and back to the gym. When I was done, she gave me my next apointment and said ''See you in 3 weeks! ''. I just froze and gave her a look and said OK bye and left. I was feeling really weird after that and my legs were shaking while waiting for the elevator.
I think I did the right thing with the no contact rule, but I regret that I went back to the clinic. I am going to ask the dentist if I can see her at the other clinic so I do not see my ex ever again.
So now it is week number 7 and next Friday I have an apointment and I might see her again. I hope it's the last time cause it really hurts.
Do you guys think no contact really helps? Or am I kidding myself and just making her get more distant and maybe both of us will lose any feelings left for each other.
Aynways if one of my e-mails I told her to never contact me again unless she wanted to come back.