Do you love the thought of being a mother or being pregnant? Would fostering/adopting a child be a compromise?
I would love to become pregnant and experience the feeling of being a mother. If for some reason I am unable to have a baby. I would adopt.
Have you discussed a compromise of six months? That would give you a bit longer to see if the changes you are making will last.
No, we have not discussed any compromise.
Are you willing to be a single mother if you have a baby with him and the marriage fails?
I'd rather the marriage fail before having a baby. I'd rather this end. But, if we were to have a baby and it does fail, yes I would be willing to be a single mother.
Do you love the thought of being a mother more than him? Are you only with him because you want a baby?
I love him and truly thought that we would have a baby. I don't think the value of my love for him is comparable to the thought of being a mother. However, being a mother has an expiration date. And, no I am not only with him to just have a baby I could of just been with anyone but I choose to keep staying.
And I do notice I always come to a halt. I have always come to a halt waiting on him. In 7 years that's all I've done waited on him. I'm not sure why I continuously do this knowing I shouldn't