So I had unprotected sex with someone I knew for a day. I am usually very good about these things but things just got out of control. She went back to the states and I haven't talked to her since nor do I have a way to. I pulled out before I finished but then we continued after that. My question is: Is there any chance of her gettingbecoming pregnant off this? She didn't seemed to care that it happened and she wasn't worried about it so I kind of assume she was on something but as a strong believer in Murphy's Law I wanted to see if there was any chance that something may come of this.

I am also going to go to the doctor as a general safety check but I kind of want to hear how stupid I was for doing this from some other people. Also I want to have some idea of the likely hood of this.

Thanks in advance.

It is Very possible that she could become pregnant. Even when people are on birthcontrol, it can happen(tho chances are much slimmer). Anytime that sperm/semen enters the vagina, (in any way) pregnancy is a possibility. The only sure way to stop pregnancy is abstaining.Good luck!

Yes even if you pull out there is still a chance because some sperm can be in the fluid prior also. Not as high a chance but still a chance.

And of course as I can swear by my first child even protection does not always work

Yes, it is very stupid. You made a very big mistake. You know why, unlike what anybody else has said. What about Aids, Hiv, Hepititis B,C. I could come up with a whole list. About pregnancy, very well possible but quite honestly If I were you I would be more worried about getting a disease. May sound harsh but very true. You asked for the truth.

Joe

You realized you made a mistake and should not be ridiculed for it.
Indeed there is the chance she could become pregnant. Indeed there is the chance either of you could have passed along a sexually transmitted disease.
Indeed you have learned a valuable lesson and will never make that mistake again. I hope the best for you and that things turn out well.

Edited to reflect the edited post previous to mine.. thanks for toning it down some JH :)

Spend less time worrying ("Worry is the misuse of an imagination" - Dan Zadra) and learn the lesson.


Repeat after me.. .
SAFE SEX ALWAYS! :eek:
SAFE SEX ALWAYS! :rolleyes:
SAFE SEX ALWAYS! :cool:

Okay? :p

PS - Should it turn up you have a child, deal with it then.

Sweetie anytime you have unprotcted sex with anyone you are always running the risk of getting someone pregnant or contracting something from them. There is nothing safe about unprotected sex especially from someone you have only known for a day. Its not as if you were in a committed relationship and there was real Love involved. It was a big mistake but we all have to make them to learn from them. I would go get yourself checked out make sure your health is okay and defenitly try and find this girl. Make sure that she didn't become pregnant. You do share in this blame but it does take two to have sex this mistake is also hers too, and if a preganancy does result from it you do need to know. Good Luck

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I am also going to go to the doctor as a general safety check but i kinda wanna hear how stupid i was for doing this from some other people. Also I want to have some idea of the likely hood of this.

Thanks in advance.

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OK, dear, you've heard it from us! Now, once you've gotten the (hopefully) good news from the doctor that you're OK, chuck this up as an experience needed and don't do it again. Always carry a condom with you in case you get lured again.

Good Luck! Keep us posted as to you're 'bill of health'.

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Originally Posted by action jackson

but i kinda wanna hear how stupid i was for doing this from some other people.

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STUPID, STUPID, STUPID!!

Hopefully the Doc gives you a green light...

And hopefully she does not become pregnant.

I don't see a problem here. You got what you wanted. If you lived according to the rest of the advice here, you would hate your life. Dude, seriously, you had a moment of passion! Congratulations, you have successfully lived out something you wanted to do. Don't regret it.

It's true, your d-ck may fall off or become infested with tiny monsters, but you knew that going into it. It was a calculated risk. Deal with it as it comes, but don't let people tell you that you made a mistake. No regrets man. Imagine how you would have felt if you didn't do it.

I say "kudos to you" for having the audacity to do what you wanted to.

LOL well first and foremost, I'm clean and she not pregnant.

The really ironic thing about this is that I thought that I would never see this girl again but then one day she called me up and said she was back in town and REALLY long story short, we kind of fell totally in love and I am moving down to the states to be with her. I have seen her more then just that one other time but just recently like YESTERDAY she called me and said that she was 2 weeks late and yes I was a fool and did not wrap my tool. I just found out today that she had her period and all is well so we are still on the right track. I have never met her parents before and I was so worried not at the fact she was pregnant but how I would explain that to her parents at the same time as meeting her.
Thanks to all for the advice and know that this is the weirdest/best thing that has ever happened to me. Im not going to say that I recommend one night stands to everyone but in this case something really came of it.

Life without regrets... Sure it could go either way, but who wants to live life saying "what if". On behalf of my country men, welcome to the US. Please avoid using the term "hella" and we can all get along.

I got my kids babysitter pregnant, one time sex.
I blew all my money at the club so I paid her with sex.
Seemed like a good idea art the time.
Now with child support I WILL BE PAYING HER OVER $100,000
Within the next 17 years to watch my new child.
I was STUPID!

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Originally Posted by hossbonnam

I got my kids babysitter pregnant, one time sex.
I blew all my money at the club so I paid her with sex.
Seemed like a good idea art the time.
Now with child support I WILL BE PAYING HER OVER $100,000
within the next 17 years to watch my new child.
I was STUPID!

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Wow... Thanks for making me feel better :) Good luck with that and the best to both of you!