This actually was a conversation at work. They say many guys crave for attention. One said when a guy is in contact with a woman he has dated he feels wanted so makes him feel good. Even if it has been years.

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Same could be said for the females too, as yes some PEOPLE need the attention even if it's BAD! Some more than others.

so that would be the reason they would keep the communication for yrs just for that? Isn't that a waste of time?

Humans are know to waste time and many have nothing better to do.

ok I was married before ad the person I was married too loved attention and I can't even see this person keeping up with someone for many yrs just to feel wanted. crazy

Maybe that's the answer, some men are crazy!

so It have nothing to do with the female?

Only if she buys into the guys behavior. Women can be just as crazy as men, you know. Even the cute ones!

so you would do that as well keep in touch with an ex just so you could feel wanted and keep up with this for like yrs and yrs?

I have never had time for such foolishness.

right see what I mean and I know this person I can't see them doing that neither