Hey, just a quick question about what is reasonable. I have been with my boyfriend for 3 years, and we live together, and were very happy. (im 21, he's 23)
Recently he found some old girlfriend of his on Facebook that was a sort of childhood love left openended. (he was about 12, so nothing serious.) He starts to message her, and she remembers very little, immediately starts calling him by a friendly nickname, and starts being flirtatious. This has only been a couple days, but they keep texting back and fourth, and though I don't know exactly what they're saying, he isn't hiding it, and what she's saying is flirtatious, with lots of smily faces and *pokes and other things.
She knows we're in a serious relationship, but it doesn't seem to change anything. I feel sort of lonely when he does it too.. He'll go on for 30minutes to 2 hours at a time without really paying attention to me at all.
We've talked about it, but he says, she's not my type and there's nothing going on, just catching up...
I obviously am pretty jealous, but I feel like if I tell him to stop that I'd be just some controlling him, but It's tearing me up every time his phone buzzes for her text. I just want to throw the phone out the window!
Can someone tell me, what should I do, should I take a stand?