Thanks Skinwhite.. that's exactly what I meant.
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Originally Posted by Skinwhite
I really don't think your son has the capacity now or in the forthcoming years to answer whether or not you should adopt. They are not capable of making such decisions of knowing what they really want at young ages. I think Chery is trying to say that if you want to adopt, this has to be a decision between you and your fiance. Your child will accept the decision, if it's something that you truly want to do. There will always be issues with siblings whether it be by adopting or through the natural family. From my personal experience as a child and as a parent, I can say most kids want siblings, as it gets very lonely with out them.
As far as fertility issues, a specialist in this area will best advise your many options.
I have two half-brothers and got them at the age of 11. It does not matter where they come from, I still love them.
Even if they would have been adopted, and I was younger, kids grow together and love each other - there is no problem there. It has to be you and your man's choice, though. Good luck, and HAPPY NEW YEAR!