OK, well there is this grl and all she ever does is sleep around with the whole town (no joke)[i have seen her in action]... grossssssss...

Now this grl has tlkd so much crap behind mine & my friends backs but by the time we confront her she denies the fact & backs down, but then tlks even more.

I know this is stupid imature stuff but it gets worse.

Since she is in middle school & I'm in high school she tries to turn all of our middle school friends against us. Then since she's all over the time with everyone all of who ever she is with (even when she has a boyfriend) she tries flirting & doing things with them!:(

This grl is asking for a lot, but she can't back any of it up. I understand it's stupid so that's why I don't want to do anything but enough is enough! For everyone!:mad: and I'm serious!

What should I do this grl is going to end up getting std's and giving it to the whole valley... and not only that but us grls don't want to make it seem, to our boyfriends, that we don't trust them... we just don't trust her...

Tell me what my friends & I should do about this grl who won't stop slleping & mesing around with everyone (singles & couples):confused: :confused: :confused: tell me what you think about this?

This is the way she is and she probably is not going to stop sleeping around with the whole town. I know of girls that do this and most of them end up getting pregnant and don't know who the father is or tried to pin down the guy with the most money etc and it is sad because if the girl sleeps with 100 guys, it would be very hard to know who the father is and she and her kid will have to suffer for this. Why does she sleep with everyone?! Insecturities is the main reason probably and guys are stupid for sleeping with a girl like this because they can get stds and get the girl pregnant and once that happens she will harrass you etc. She obviously wants attention so don't give her any, everyone needs to stop sleeping with her and if they do USE protection! She has 0 self confidence and is a slut because she is sleeping around, she is probably talking about everyone for attention. This girl is in middle school and is a child and she can catch stds herself! She needs to get in to counceling!! Does her parents know what is happening, she obviously has not been raised right and someone is not doing anything about her attitude and sleeping around problem. As far as how to help her, she is not going to change.. The only thing that you can do for her is tell her parents, school councelor, etc but that still may do no good because she is an out of control teen. She would need a lot of work at good chances are that her parents do not know what is going on or do not care.

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Originally Posted by joshsgrl4evr

ok, well there is this grl and all she ever does is sleep around with the whole town (no joke)[i have seen her in action]...grossssssss.....

now this grl has tlkd so much crap behind mine & my friends backs but by the time we confront her she denies the fact & backs down, but then tlks even more.

i know this is stupid imature stuff but it gets worse.

since she is in middle school & i'm in high school she tries to turn all of our middle school friends against us. then since she's all over the time with everyone all of who ever she is with (even when she has a boyfriend) she tries flirting & doing things with them!:(

this grl is asking for a lot, but she can't back any of it up. i understand it's stupid so that's why i don't want to do anything but enough is enough! for everyone!:mad: and i'm serious!

what should i do this grl is gonna end up getting std's and giving it to the whole valley...and not only that but us grls don't want to make it seem, to our boyfriends, that we don't trust them....we just don't trust her....

tell me what my friends & i should do about this grl who wont stop slleping & mesing around with everyone (singles & couples):confused: :confused: :confused: tell me what you think about this?

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It's not your place to try and save her and if you do try to you'll probably be disappointed. Let it go it's not your problem it's hers. All you're going to do is cause drama and more problems and conflicts you don't want to be labeled as a "Drama Queen" or "Problem Causer" she's young she'll figure it out

She'll find out the hard way. Don't even worry about her.

Can we say DRAMA. Just forget about it. Don't talk to her and have fun with your boys without worrying about her. In HS hardly anything is serious anyway so not much is to be lost. But its all drama... get over the drama and worry about your own life.

Let this girl be. She in not worth your time, your effort, or your energy. Just walk away and pay no attention to what she says or does. To get in her face about what you think she says does not make you any better. It just lends fuel to whatever she says.

If she is as bad as you say, then who really, honestly, is going to care? People who know you and your friend will stick up for you. Those that do not, who cares?

Tell her parents.

She enjoys being a whore... What else can I say? :rolleyes:

Ethier tell her parents are let her find out what she's doing the hard way carma will come around.

How about something different?


1] Don't believe what you hear. Do you ever wonder what people say about you and how much is false?

2] You are older, and presumably more mature and wiser, talk with this girl. Find out what her issue is. It is sad that a middle school age girl craves so much attention and the only attention she seems to be getting is sexual.

You could be the one to change her life - for the better.
Befriend her.
Tell her the dangers of promiscuity [ std[s], pregnancy, etc.].



If she is still hateful after all efforts on your part, then it is her loss. You can rest in the knowledge that you did the right thing.





Grace and Peace