Heh everyone I just broke up with my ex about a month ago... we just needed some time apart.. so now that I am trying to reconcile things I find out that he is messin with another girl... not his girlfriend but someone he is talking to.. he says that I left him so it will be on his terms when we get back together... I broke down on day and cried telling him id lost him etc... and he said baby don't cry you haven't lost me I just don't want to rush back into things... what is that supposed to mean? the more I try to push the issue the angrier he gets... I don't understand... bc he says he loves me and he says that he still wants to be with me and he believes that we will most likely end up getting back together.. but why not now?? someone please tell me what to do... im losing my mind because he's my world and I love him so very much...