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How can u tell if the girl you are talking to is being totally truthful and faithful towards you about things going on in her life and if she's not what am I to do about it

You have to be secure in your relationship and watch for many red flags before you determine she is cheating.
Too often relationships fail because the one accuses the other of cheating because of their own insecurities which can break up a relationship faster than anything.
Also you do not want to accuse because then they learn to hide their cheating better.
So just have trust but keep your eyes open.

If you're asking this question, you already have insecurity issues. You have no guarantee that she is completely honest and faithful, it's called trust.

Have her take a lie detector test... all of the gals I date must pass this first round of questioning before a dinner date is set.

Or, you could throw caution to the wind, be secure in who you are, and let the rest take care of itself (but that all sounds way too easy).

I think a better question is "how can u tell if the girl you are talking to isn't being totally truthful and faithful towards you about things going on in her life?"

You look for clues. If there aren't any, then you don't worry about it and just have fun getting to know each other. Are there reasons you think she might be lying or cheating?

If you started talking to a girl and something happened that she had to go away for a month but told u that she'll be back on this day and then that day comes and goes and you haven't heard from her in weeks what does it really mean is it over or what

Over? I am not sure anything even began did it?

So why do you think its over? The first time we talked, we were on the phone for hours on end, she was the first person that came out and said she see's a long relationship between the two of us. She shocked me by coming out first to say I love you. It was shocking to me to hear that.

Edited for chat speak, grammer and sentece structure................................this time.

One long phone call is not a relationship. Or am I that old?

I would be more worried that, after a simple phone conversation, a woman told me she loved me. I think you may have read a bit too much into this, and need to unattach yourself from whatever it is you classify this as.

So then what are my options and what should I do how do I get her to at least acknoledge me or tell me its over why are women always do things the way they do

Her actions pretty much do the talking... and by reading her actions you should see that there is NOTHING there, so go out, have fun and forget about her.

Move on hon. Don't waste your life wondering what could have been or what MIGHT have been

So you guys really think she'll never call me I really have wondered y its always the good guys that get hurt and always end up with the short end of the stick

What's are the signs that u know a girl is interested in you

Are we talking about girls that you know? Or girls that you just see somewhere?

Dr. Jizzle it's a girl I know

We need more info.

Is she a friend of yours?

How old are you?

What makes you think she may like you?

Have you asked her?

Eek... well, that can be difficult. The thing with girls that are also friends is that they tend to blur the lines between signs of friendship and the signs of romantic interest.

Do you two hang out often? Or at all? When you do, is it YOU arranging the hanging out? Or is it her?

When she is around you, do you feel that you have to work for her attention or is she naturally drawn toward you in or for a conversation?

When she looks at you, does she lock eyes with you? Or advert her gaze elsewhere?

Does she laugh at jokes you make? And when she does, does she touch you (slight brush on the shoulder/back if standing.. leg or knee if sitting)?

Does she ever refer to you as just her friend? If so, what kind of look does she have on her face when she does?

There can be so many and they can be so subtle... and they can be often misinterpreted. But if you start to learn the idiosyncrasies of women, it can be quite obvious...

You will waste a LOT of your life trying to "read" these creatures when you may not be equipped to do so... yet. So don't waste that time.

If you're interested in a girl, make it clear. Don't make her have to "interpret" you, let her know. Ask her out. Be specific, not creepy, invite her to something specific.

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Originally Posted by Eng299

whats are the signs that u know a girl is interested in you

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I think the #1 sign is when you ask her out and she says "yes". Can't get much clearer than that. And look, you didn't have to "interpret" anything. Win-win.