I'm ganna straight forword.. I love my wife so much and I'm crazy about her although I had so many relationships before I met my wife but still she is so special as she is now.. and accourding to she keeps saying that she loves me too very mush.. but with a way I cannt see her love comparing with what she tells me about it..

She is in U.S.A and I live in another country , but she is barely text me a day.. or call me.. unless I ask her to call me or to start txting me..

I did so many crazy things to her.. I spent 5000 dollars in Valentine's day, but still I'm not getting what I'm looking for..

Do you think that I'm asking for more.. or what?

You have to define what you mean by being loved. You are distant apart and probably communication might be a problem with her. Maybe you need to initiate frequent communication yourself. How much you spend on her might not matter as this might not determine how much you love her. I think play your part in as far as communication is concerned and see what happens.