So I recently got back together with my ex boyfriend we were together for 3 1/2 almost 4 yrs. Before we broke up. After we broke the relationship he started dating one of his female "friend". But later dumped her because she told him she loved him. He came back to me and told me everything and said that he only had love for one person, me. And a week later we got back together. Now here we are today still together, but his female friend added him on Facebook again. And I'm afraid he's going to fall for her again. I'm scared to loose him again, because I'm in love with him . What should I do? Please Help!

You got to think why you finished the relationship in the first place? Secondly can you be with someone who you can't trust 100%? If the answer to this second one is no then its best you finish it with him. I no it will be hard and so painful it will be for the best trust me! I've been in the same situation and recently found out my boyfriend (now ex) of 3yrs had recently cheated on me. I have finished with him as I no that this is for the best. Do you really want this to happen to you, if he falls for her again he may cheat on you.

Take care hun

J x

Don't worry about the competition, it will only drive you crazy, and distract you from working together to build a life together.

You don't do anything. You just carry on as if she didn't add him. My husband and I are both friends with exes on Facebook and it means nothing. He's with you. That's what counts

Thank you all , your answers really helped. I'm still with him and I've asked him if he still wants to be with me , he says yes , and yesterday I asked him if he still had feelings for her and he said no. and I'm getting an idea that his female friend is trying to make me jealous, by posting things like "hey do you want me to call you at three in the morning again?" and I'm going to be honest but it is working .:/ I don't know what to do now , I'm feeling ignored by him somedays and than I'm feeling all happy...

If what you say is true, and you can be so easily fooled, and influenced by outside people, then you don't have much of a relationship any way. Their plan only works if you let it.