Keeping secrets from spouses
My daughter (26) and her ex boyfriend got into a really big fight at a football game Sunday night. My husband and father were there and took both kids home seperatly. They've been broken up for over a year and I guess the "lets be friends" thing didn't work out. I thought that was the end of the story.
Tuesday my daughter came home crying. Her ex is now leading a smear campaign against my daughter. Her best friends boyfriend has joined in.
Wed, her best friend is tired of hearing her cry. She is even more upset than before. She wanted someone to talk to and asked me to listen. She knows its all a bunch of childish drama, it will all blow over and "please dont get dad involved any more than he already is". He was there when it all happened Sunday.
If that was all there was to the story, I would agree to leave it alone. I know she is old enough to deal with it and my husband cant really do anything about it anyway but, both boys work for my husband. If how horrible a person my daughter is, is the hot topic around the water cooler, shouldn't my husband know?