To make a long story short, my husband and I have been married 3 years. We have two children together and I have one from a previous marriage. My husband is a military veteran, and has mild PTSD. He has been on medication for about two years now ( His gets depressed/ withdrawn, hyperaroused, anxious and has a trouble with anger and snappiness). For a little over two months he has quit taking his meds (he has to see dr before they will prescribe more) For a little while it was OK, but for the past month it has been rough. He never seems happy at all, he gets way over protective of the kids, second guesses my constantly with our children (one has severe food allergies), our oldest is 7 and has severe adhd so when his meds wear off he can be a handful (the other night my husband went overboard, got in his face screaming and holding his finger in his face and was s mad he was visibly shaking) I pulled him out of the room and told him that he was out of line, he argued but later apologized. My poor son was crying a river, it was the first time that I actually felt scared of my husband around of children. A few weeks ago he also got upset at me and left the house he said that he was on the verge of choking me. I can't remember what we were arguing about but I believe it was something very small. Fast forward, he's still off his meds even after multiple tries to get him to schedule his appointments, I even offered to do it for him or go with him but he still won't go. Things are progressively worsening.. he is distant, cold, and honestly acts like he doesn't want to be here, he doesn't do anything to help me with the kids or around the house except for every once in a blue moon, I feel so alone. We are also having financial problems, my husband makes good money but we have gotten behind on bills and now are struggling to catch back up. I sld everything of value that I own to pay for our children Christmas and birthday presents and I feel like I am the only putting forth real effort. When he's on his meds at least he is more loving and less hostile and distant but he keeps refusing... I don't know how much more I can stand it. Tonight he left to go hang out and drink with his friends and I asked him to please not be out all night, or at least come home by midnight and he got angry with me, and did I mention the money he took to buy his drinks was the only money he has to last until his next paycheck a week away! =( advice please!