HI I am a birthmother to beautiful baby boy and I never told the birthfather that I had my baby boy while I was pregnant I actually told him I got an abortion and now 2 months after the birth l I did tell him! It wasn't that he was a bad guy he was a great guy especially when we were dating its just that things happen feelings change and we broke up back in jan.its just that I didn't want to raise my son alone and I don't have the finaces to raise a baby I def had the patientce and then I think I'm only 21 I want to go to school and travel and meet the person I will fall in love with and take care of a baby with ,well I told him a couple of days ago and he told me that he wants a paternity test and if the child is his he is not agreeing with the adoption and he doesn't want his son living with them... my problem is what if he contests the adoption.. I don't want things ruined between the adoptive parents and me.. I think they are going to get mad at me and then cut off contact with me but actually in the end if they did do that would just hurt them the most because what would they tell my birth son? So my main questions are does he have a chance at getting his son back? He also never filed for punative father registry!
And if he does get his son back can he keep him from me?
I'm really scared of this escalating though when it comes down to it I believe that if he really wants his son back that there is nothing I can do but I would like if he just participated in the open adoption with me
Does he have a chance at getting his son back