So I like my shift manager but I don't know if he likes me back he has a wife n two kids he would sometimes say to me oh you're breaking my heart and give me puppy dog eyes WHAT SHOULD I DO

Ignore him and do your work.

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Originally Posted by Wondergirl

Ignore him and do your work.

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But it's hard to when I'm the cashier

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Originally Posted by Jojoisfly12

But it's hard to when I'm the cashier

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He's married and a father and off limits. I've been a cashier and yes, you can ignore him -- or at least his flirty comments.

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Originally Posted by Wondergirl

He's married and a father and off limits. I've been a cashier and yes, you can ignore him -- or at least his flirty comments.

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He purposely tucked in his shirt right in front of me and looked @ me while smiing

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Originally Posted by Jojoisfly12

He purposely tucked in his shirt right in front of me and looked @ me while smiing

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Then you turn away and get busy with counting bills and making sure they are in their proper slots in your register.

When you are married some day and are at home struggling with two kids, are you going to be happy for your husband who is at working flirting with cashiers?

You ignore him, if he flirts too much, ask him to stop, or ask him how his wife and kids are.

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Originally Posted by Fr_Chuck

you ignore him, if he flirts too much, ask him to stop, or ask him how his wife and kids are.

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What if he doesn't realize he's doing it

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Originally Posted by Jojoisfly12

What if he doesn't realize he's doing it

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Of course he knows he's doing it! Be a cashier.

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Of course he knows hes doing it! Be a cashier.

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I also do fries n he's been in the fry freezer with me and that freezer ain't very big

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Originally Posted by Jojoisfly12

I also do fries n he's been in the fry freezer with me and that freezer ain't very big

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So you encourage him?

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So you encourage him?

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How would that be encouraging him most of the stuff in that freezer is heavy

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How would that be encouraging him most of the stuff in that freezer is heavy

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So have someone else help you.
How old are you? And he?
Not that matters, just curious.
My guess is that you are young and you find this inappropriate attention flattering.
Don't be flattered if it weren't you it would be someone else.
If the question is how to stop it, that's easy as everyone else has already stated. Keep your attitude professional and aloof, and don't encourage it by playing into it.
He is playing with fire and you don't want to be one of the people getting burned.

He's 29 I'm 18 n I sort of flirted with him yesterday when he came in but I don't think he noticed

You have two choices. You either make sure you maintain a business like relationship or you report him to the HR department for sexual harassment. If he is making you feel uncomfortable, that is illegal.

Do you work for a large chain?

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You have two choices. You either make sure you maintain a business like relationship or you report him to the HR department for sexual harassment. If he is making you feel uncomfortable, that is illegal.

Do you work for a large chain?

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I work for Arbys n it doesn't bug me a lot only because I don't see him a lot

This is a link to an employee handbook from a large Arbys franchisee:

Arbys sexual harassment policy - Bing

Page 7 discusses workplace harassment. Does your franchise have a similar handbook? If so I would make a copy of the page(s) that deal with harassment and leave it in his locker or office anonymously.

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Originally Posted by ScottGem

This is a link to an employee handbook from a large Arbys franchisee:

Arbys sexual harassment policy - Bing

Page 7 discusses workplace harassment. Does your franchise have a similar handbook? If so I would make a copy of the page(s) that deal with harassment and leave it in his locker or office anonymously.

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Idk I think we do

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He's 29 I'm 18 n I sorta flirted with him yesterday when he came in but I don't think he noticed

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So maybe you are doing the flirting and interpreting his words and actions toward you as flirting back at you?

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Idk I think we do

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You "think" you do? Such a handbook would have been required to be given to you when you were hired. Copies should be accessible to any employee.

Doesn't sound like a properly run franchise.