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  • Sep 12, 2008, 06:12 PM
    terellowens
    Age difference
    I got asked out by a pretty hot women a couple of days ago and have a date planned for today (Saturday night) but I am unsure if I should go ahead with a date I agreed to at the spur of the moment when she hit on me she is 26 years old and I am only 18 she was really nice and I act a lot more mature than my age but is the age gap too much ?

    My point is should I go on the date or not or age does not matter I just find it a bit weird as I have never dated anyone more than 2 years older than me.

    Thanks for any insight into my personal dilemma/doubts
  • Sep 12, 2008, 06:29 PM
    JBeaucaire
    You think it's weird you've never dated someone more than two years older than you?

    Or you think it's weird you said yes when she asked you?

    Or you think it's weird you're on the internet wondering what complete strangers think about a date you haven't even gone on yet?

    What exactly are you asking? Do you really even HAVE a problem? It's just a date, right?
  • Sep 12, 2008, 06:32 PM
    terellowens
    Just the age difference really sorry if what I wrote it like a puzzle I am just wondering if the age difference is too much thanks
  • Sep 12, 2008, 06:48 PM
    JBeaucaire
    We are complete strangers. You're both adults. It's JUST a date, right? Is there something more you can add here to convince us this is weird?

    If all you want is random personal opinions (not sure what good that'll do since YOU still have to walk your path)... I'd say no, it's not weird you said yes. I think it's weird she asked you, though. Other than that... enjoy.
  • Sep 14, 2008, 06:56 AM
    meeeee
    Only you can decide if the ages difference is too big, personally I believe age is just a number, it's the person that counts. There is 6 years between my boyfriend and I and it is never an issue! Good luck with whatever you decide, let us know how it works out :) x
  • Sep 14, 2008, 11:00 AM
    jrsg
    JB said it right...

    Its just a date.
    Everything is okay within the law (if you decide to take it that far).

    If you are looking for my opinion, I know a lot of girls who only date guys older then them. I don't know many girls who date younger guys (other than 40 yr. old cougars). That seems weird to me, that a 26 yr old would ask out an 18 yr old. All that seems weird is that initial situation, but other than that, its just a date.

    Go on the date, and have fun.
    Let us know how everything goes
  • Sep 18, 2008, 04:04 PM
    GothGirl1771
    You should try it... have fun!
  • Sep 18, 2008, 04:18 PM
    ylaira
    Ideally, the man should be older because they say that men mature later compared to women.

    But in my opinion, so long as you feel you're in same wave length, it should be okay. People varies.You are already in the right age to decide for yourselves.

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