Is my husband helping me enough or not to look after our baby?
Hello, I just want to know is my husband helping me enoughor or not. We both are first time parents and I feel very confused with my life atm. My husband has 16 hours per week job sometimes goes up to 18 but don't work everyday some times only 3 days per week. He has back problems and pain in his hip. He loves our 3 month old baby girl very much, makes her smile and plays with her, feeds, changes diapers time to time. I'm full-time mom, 24/7 plus I do housework and I have MS. The problem is I feel like he isn't helping much, usually after work he will eat and play his game watch TV and post something on fb. He will look after our baby girl if he will see that I left her with him but that won't take long some how she will be again with me. I struggle with sleep deprivation from day when I gave birth ( never over 3 months almost 4 now had 7/8 hours not broken sleep) I feel mentally and physically very weak, do cry a lot and feel lonely, depressed, isolated, have thoughts about my death (sometimes). The problem is bigger, I don't have my family or any friends here who could help me. Some times his mom will help but she is old so I'm not asking often. I feel like as a person I don't even exist just do everything for everyone. Scared to ask my husband for anything much because he will say he had to wake up early go to work so he is tired or his back hurts. Is anyone else there in situation like mine? Would like to know how do you cope?