My boyfriend won't date me if I'm a stripper
Recently I have been interested in becoming a stripper for a few years. But the minute I brought it up with him, he said he wouldn't date a stripper. We've been dating for about a year now, with plans on getting married. I've tried to tell him how I would like to become a stripper, and earn good money. I know that he had plans of being a cage fighter, which scared the hell out of me, but I supported him because I know it was what he wanted to do. But he refuses to do the same for me.
There are a lot of ways a beautiful person can make money
And NOT have to do it in the sex industry. I read the posts from the dancers and the most telling part was that the second one would not want HER daughter to do it. Why? If it's sooooo okay, and rewarding, etc... why would one want to exclude her beloved daughter from it? Because it is NOT an ideal job, and even if you are in a "decent" club (if there IS such a thing) they are still filled perverts(even if they are well paid perverts), still objectifying women, and feeding on the sexual desires/fantasies of men and women.
Many of us do things when we are young that we may regret later on, and stripping is probably a common theme for many women.
I don't blame your man for not wanting you to strip. I think all of us need to feel proud of our partners. I would have a hard time feeling proud to tell someone important to me that my man was a stripper.
If you want to dance, do it privately for your man, and look into modeling, or acting. I would bet that, in the long run, you'll be better off for it.
Beauty is power, use it wisely.
Take care.