Maid of Honor - What to do
I'm a maid of honor (MOH) in my best friend's wedding. She was engaged February 2011, and her wedding is October 2012.
Everything leading up to this point is about her, and I understand that and I oblige to some extent. She was worried I was going to get my dress in time, I got one and she's been OK. Until the last couple weeks.
I've been planning her Bridal Shower, and I'm paying for the whole thing and the bachelorette party myself because the other bridesmaids don't want to, and her parents are paying for her entire wedding.
Almost 2 weeks ago she invited me over to her house with one of the other bridesmaids. I said maybe, and then 4 days later she said "see you at 6" and I said "I completely forgot, I'm really sorry, can we hang out later this weekend?" and she got all mad and said "i'm leaving for my cruise on Sunday and won't be back til the following Sunday, so no." and before she left I sent her a text saying "have a fun safe trip."
Yesterday, Labor Day Holiday, I texted her asking how her trip was. She said good but she got sick, I showed concern and then she said "yeah, well, my phone is dying, so later."
So here are my questions:
1. Should I ask her if I did something wrong? I don't think I did, but the world revolves around her (just ask her) so I'm sure I did.
2. If this continues, would it be out of line to step out of the wedding?
3. Any additional advice?
Thanks in advance!