How do I combat parental alienation?
My ex has resorted to manipulating our 4 children into pitying him and making excuses for him. He owes me back child support. They support him in court against me. He has made many poor decisions in his life. His last wife left him. He's had health issues (brought on by his own behavior). I on the other hand, am happily remarried, have provided vacation homes, sports experiences, educations and cars to these 4 children. Their father borrows money from them. Why don't they see his lack of integrity and moral compass? How can I be the bad guy?