Mom wants me and g/f to break up
I wasn't sure where else to post this, but anyway I know the title seems a little dramatic, but I seriously think my mom WANTS to see me and my girlfriend break up. When we started going out, my mom didn't really introduce her self that much, but she was kind about it. I had to introduce her to my mom, and my mom simply said "oh, hi" with one of those tones. When I introduced her to my dad, he was glad I had girlfriend, he was real nice and everything, he got talking to her, asking her questions and everything.
Then, when we broke up about six months ago, my dad sympathised with me, but my mom simply "well, thats a shame" and had somewhat of a 'hidden smirk' on her face.
We then got back together about a month later, and are still going out now, but when we got back together and I told my mom she said "really?" but she said it like she wanted to say "why waste your time?" When my girlfriend moved in with me, well, I don't even want to go into details as to how my mom reacted, but to put everything mildly (and appropriate to post) she said "I hope you know what yor doing, don't go messing up your life the way ---- did" (I rather not put my closest friends name in)
To top everything off, I hear from my girlfriend that my mom is talking bad about me to her. When I'm not around, she'll ask things like "So, have you seen his violent tempers yet?", or personal questions like "you guys aren't 'doing it' are you? I don't need any grandchildren"
I'v tried talking to her before, but she denies ever saying things like that, and she blame my girlfriend, she says she's lying to me to test me. I know that isn't true, caue of a couple things: 1. I know how my mom is, those are questions she wouold be low enough to ask, and 2. my girlfriend has never lied to me about stuff when it comes to my parents.
I at the point where I am ready to tell my girlfriend I don't want her talking to my mom IF I am not around, but I don't want to do that, cause I gues other than those questions, she likes talking to her. I am really at the end of my rope and don't know what to do about my mom, any advice?
By the way, I am 22, and my girlfriend is 21, just in case y'all thought my mom was doing this because of our age.