So the guy I have been talking about the married man asked me to send a video of me and the other guy having sex. He's been texting me to see it. I told him that I don't have a video of us having sex. He said I should have it in my stash. I am not sure if he was playing or not but he said it turns him on. My cousin said it was a trap.This is the guy who I had sex with many yrs ago and want to have sex now but we just chat. He is happily married.