Originally Posted by
Choux
It sounds to me like your wife has a lot of anger toward you, and you will have to get to the bottom of it in order to repair your relationship and sexual relationship.
She may feel like you have abandoned her in the face of your family problems....that you are emotionally and physically uninvolved..that you are just another burden to her.
If you want to improve the situation, you will have to dig deep into yourself. Figure out what you are contributing to the negativity of the situation. Then, apologize to your wife and plan for making a better future. You do work, don't you? Hire a mother's helper for doing housework after dinner and so on.
Best wishes to you and your family, :)