Treading lightly around future daughter in law.
Our future daughter in law appears to be having some trouble with addressing invitations correctly, i.e. using official titles, and including spouses. The invitations also contained several of those store cards for gift registries. Because I am just the stepmom of her future husband and have not had any part of the planning of the wedding (though we are paying for a large portion) I feel like I shouldn't say anything. It's embarrassing to hear that our friends are receiving incorrectly addressed invitations, but isn't it up to her mother to assist her in this?
Incidentally, we received a shower invitation from the bride with her own return address. Apparently her mother is hosting the event. I'm mortified that some of our friends may have received invitations to this self-hosted event as well.
Is there anything that can be done in a subtle manner to avoid further embarrassment, or should I just let it go for the sake of the future relationship?:confused: