My boyfriend has a tear near the top of his penis!Every time we have sex there's lots of blood,which takes approximately 36 hrs to heal!Don't TELL HIM TO GO TO THE DOCTORS CAUSE HE Won't!

I take it that your boyfriend is uncut ?

You may not want to hear this but the only place that he will get the correct help is from a Doctor and needs to seek medical help.

This problem could get worse, do you really not want him to get the correct help he needs, my advise would be that if he feels so dead set against going then maybe you could go with him for support.

Lots of guys worry about the parts down there and are shy of showing their problem to doctors or nurses, they have seen it all before and will only be intrested in the medical problem period nothing else.