Originally Posted by serialwife
Well i am a social worker and I am very concerned about your child's behavior. It is normal for children to begin touching themselves between the ages of 3-5. It however is completely different for a child to be talking about the body parts of the opposite sex. Did you ask your child where she saw the pictures of the penis? I would be very concerned about where my child was viewing pornographic images. They don't teach sex ed in pre-k or kindergarten. A child who is bragging about kissing is slightly odd. Is she giving them pecks on the cheek, the lips, or is she french kissing. It could be that your child has been sexually abused. The report you are giving sounds suspiciously like she has been perped on by someone.
You need to sit the child down ask her questions. If you are not comfortable talking to the child call social services or law enforcment and tell them they you need to know who can provide you with a forensic interview for child sex abuse. They will only talk to the child and and observe her.
Furthermore, when she starts talking about these topics and touching herself you need to correct her behavior and tell her we do these things in private. If she continues establish a time out routine for inappropriate behavior.