I don't know If I want a PS4 or Xbox One and its eating me up . I don't really care for the specs of the consels but it's the games that I want from bouth of them .

Make a list (two actually)... all the games you like now for each on its own list... and add the upcoming games you read about you might have an interest in.

Do that and one list will have more reasons to go with that one rather than the other as it can be a very personal decision based on your own tastes vs. what's available.