Child Support - 2 child living at separate parents - 1 child turning 18 soon.
I will try not to make this too long but I went through a 3 year court battle with my ex with our 2 kids who are now 17 (Daughter) and 15 (Son). My son has been living with his dad since he was like 9 because I let him. Court battle was dropped due to judge thinking my ex was lying after 3 years and a bunch of stuff got thrown out. Boils down to 3 years of my ex having money and us having none. We live 3 hours apart and his courts up there are messed up living in a small town they pretty much make up their own. The real issue is my daughter turns 18 and graduates in 2008 - she plans on going to nursing school and does plan on living here. I knew her dad was going to try something once she turns 18. He made the comment tonight that I was in for a rude awaking in a year. My son then will be going on 16 but only in 10th.
Question is when my daughter turns 18 or graduates can my ex try to get Child support from me for our son who will be 16? My daughter plans on living here and going to school for at least 2 years. If she moves out can my ex try to get child support at 18 if my son goes to secondary school?
When we split up when my youngest was a year my daughter 3 years I took a low low child support cause I knew he couldn't afford it. After the 3 year court battle it was decided that no child support would go either way since we both had a kid. My ex only lets my son come down here 2x a year as there is always an excuse one way or another and my daughter chooses not to see him either as she works full time and they don't get along.
My husband thinks we should beat my ex to the punch just not sure what we can do or can't do. I thought if my daughter lives with us until she is 20 and going to school he can't try to get me for child support and I don't know if he can try and get child support when my son turns 18 if he decides to go to secondary school. We are going to try to talk to a lawyer when we get the money to see what are rights are before it happens.