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  • Feb 6, 2008, 10:20 PM
    goldmember
    What do girls want to here from guys.
    :confused: OK listen Im a 19yr old hot male and lonely... the prob is that Im just to quite... I mean girls say Im good looking all the time... when Im around them wordz just don't come out... I just get speechless... and when its quite things get a little awarded... I just don't know what to say... I had a couple of breakups because of that... m just to quite... and Im sick of that... so help me what can I do... I just want to know what do girls want to hear so they don't get board
  • Feb 6, 2008, 11:01 PM
    smcthatgirl2
    Hey :) don't worry there is nothing wrong with you. Girls just want to know that you think they are special, they probably think that you are bored of them or something. Just try to feel better about yourself and you will become more confident with girls.
  • Feb 7, 2008, 03:19 AM
    imation
    Definitely, be self confident. Its OK being quiet, I'm quiet a lot of the time, but having good socials skills to make a conversation out of nothing is not a hard thing to leard, maybe at first talk about them, girls like to talk about themselves lol, and when you get more comfortable she will be talking and laughing and so will you, surely you've got friends, act the same around the girls
  • Feb 7, 2008, 04:09 AM
    shygrneyzs
    We want to hear that you would fly to the moon for us. Lol. Seriously, we want to hear the same kind of thing you want to hear. That you like us, appreciate our values, enjoy being with us, etc. We want honesty. Being sincere helps too. No baloney as girls can pick that out - so can guys. No cons or just saying something to say it. We want to know you listen - not just hear, but listen.

    Be yourself, just yourself. Not made up or made over or fake or overdone. Finding out about each other and having open communication.
  • Feb 7, 2008, 01:33 PM
    peaceom
    When you meet the right girl you'll just kina open up to her, and know what to say. I know it sounds like a fairy tale situation, but that's what will happen.
    :]
  • Feb 7, 2008, 08:55 PM
    mwilliams15
    I'm a year older than you and I'll tell you what girls my age want in a guy. I want a confident man. A guy who treats me with respect and is a gentleman. I want a guy who will hold my hand and give me a kiss on the forehead for no reason. I want a guy who will stand by my side when we walk and not walk 10 steps ahead of me. I want a guy with a great sense of humor. I like spontaneous guys. I like it when it's a normal day, you don't think anything fun is going to happen, and you get a call from a guy saying lets go out, lets go for a hike or go fishing. I like a guy who can teach me new things, who wants me to try things I've never tried before ( and I don't say that meaning sexual lol ). I want a man who likes to cuddle up on the couch and watch a good football game. I like guys who like to do things for me like cook me dinner.. that's cute. I like guys who have plans for the future. I like guys who like to go places.. anywhere... even if its walking a mile to a really scenic place.. I like guys who want to just sit and talk for hours and laugh about all the funny things that happen in a day. I want a guy who will put his hand on my cheek, lift my chin up, and kiss me softly.. =).. I like a lot in a guy.. a lot of girls do.. you gota have substance.

    Be a little more spontaneous, be more confident, joke around, tickle her. You got to get over your shyness. Talk about what happened in a day, take her places.. you don't have to spend money to have a good time. Show her you can be fun.. you can do it.

    Anything else? Just ask =)

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