Landlady. Weird situation
Hi,
I have been renting a room from my landlady for a year now. There are a 50- year old married couple , my daughter and landly-all living in the same house but different rooms.
(I like the house,it's clean and neat-we all clean people and is very tidy everywhere. The kitchen is huge and sunny; the tennants as well as landlady is OK, she is friendly, talkative and easy going. But I keep distance from her because I cannot feel her,- she seems to me a bit showing off, or else, I don't know what. ).
Anyway the main purpose is this: all is fine in the house as long as my landlady don't have her friends over at night suddenly when everyone is asleep.They shout loud, dancing, drinking etc ) landlady is 38 y.o but her friends are 10 year younger, so by the voices in the kitchen when they all there , one can guess that there is teenager's party going on.) we can hardly sleep that night, but it's still Ok because landlady does this kind of party once a month approximately. But my worst thing is, that when I go down to the kitchen after everyone is gone and my landlady is nowhere to be seen, I can see the mess everythwere in the kitchen, and most important, that my cutlery is touched, my kitchen cupboard inside is spilled with the coffee, and my kitchen towells are dirty like someone wiped the car tyres with them. ( every time she has friends , my stuff is being touched: either this or that0everytime is different. And she says, 'ohh I did'nt see that they did it').
I talked to her about it and she was quite surprised and angered that I mentioned that because in her opinion nothing really happened, she said 'sorry' and that was it. But I kindly insisted that she should stop to let her firneds be so bsent minded towards my stuff,
She became agitated why I am so fussy about that. She said we should be as one family, -waht if I took something what is yours,or etc. I said @please don't do it anymore as I like my things being tidy'. She clearly does not like my askeing that it and definitely is going to repeat that again ( I hope I am mistaken!) just to prove that she is 'the boss here'..
I like the house and location. Unless she has friends she is fine. What shall I do, please?
Thank you guys!