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  • Jul 6, 2007, 08:46 AM
    woh337
    When a guy calls you on his birthday
    So last night, I got this voice message from a friend of mine. He is not really a close friend, just an okay guy friend.

    He asked me how I was doing this summer and said about the jokes we usually talk about at school. I have known him for 2 years, and he never called me before.

    I wonder what does this mean, when a guy calls me.

    Do u think that' is a good sign that he is problly interested in me?

    Should I call back, what should I say?

    I don't have much dating experience, so I'd like to see other's opinion on this.





    P.S. He is shy usually, that's why I am so surprised he called me last night. Plus, I am kind of overachieving type girl, I know I got the look, but in real world, guys are scared off by me,so that puzzles me why a guy would call me?

    It was his birthday last night,although he didn't tell me that, but I know it's his birthday.and he shoudn't be drunk because it was about 7-8:00pm. :P


    Thank you!
  • Jul 6, 2007, 09:21 AM
    kristynn
    He wanted to invite you to his birthday party and was too shy to call you beforehand and invite you. So, he called you afterwards, when he realized that something was missing at his birthday party and that was YOU, missy. :)

    Yeah, call him back. Ask him how was his birthday and why didn't he invite you too? :) Didn't you deserve it?
    But I mean, don't be REALLY serious about it... :p
  • Jul 6, 2007, 10:46 AM
    woh337
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by kristynn
    He wanted to invite you to his birthday party and was too shy to call you beforehand and invite you. So, he called you afterwards, when he realized that something was missing at his birthday party and that was YOU, missy. :)

    Yeah, call him back. Ask him how was his birthday and why didn't he invite you too? :) Didn't you deserve it?
    But I mean, don't be REALLY serious about it... :p

    Well, he is in Idaho,LOL and u know where I am at -the east coast. There is no way I can get there!:D
  • Jul 6, 2007, 11:14 AM
    kristynn
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by woh337
    Well, he is in Idaho,LOL and u know where I am at -the east coast. There is no way I can get there!:D

    Awww :( I didn't know that..

    But you're still not happy with him calling you from so far away, on his birthday? :p
  • Jul 6, 2007, 12:23 PM
    woh337
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by kristynn
    Awww :( I didn't know that..

    But you're still not happy with him calling you from so far away, on his birthday? :p

    Oh I was very surprised! Of course happy!:p He is really hot 6'2 blonde and seems very serious!
  • Jul 6, 2007, 12:39 PM
    kristynn
    So, did you call him back? :p
  • Jul 6, 2007, 12:42 PM
    woh337
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by kristynn
    So, did you call him back? :p

    Nah... I am at work right now... I might next week, because I am heading out of town for my work this weekend. Work comes first right?;) Assume that he likes me... guys like things that they don't get easily,, so I'll wait... women's trick,LOL:D
    How are you today, hun?
  • Jul 6, 2007, 01:25 PM
    kristynn
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by woh337
    Nah...I am at work right now...I might next week, coz I am heading out of town for my work this weekend. Work comes first right?;) Assume that he likes me...guys like things that they don't get easily,,,so I'll wait...women's trick,LOL:D
    How are you today, hun?

    I'm good, thanks, as I hope you are too. If I would be you, I would call him right away. Nothing wrong with it as long as you don't seem desperate :p - which I know you won't ;). Just casually talking on the phone won't hurt, you know? It doesn't mean he got you. Not at all.
    Call today, leave the rest for later. This is what I would do. :p
  • Jul 6, 2007, 02:14 PM
    nicespringgirl
    I want to say, call him right away too. Sometimes if u miss it, u'll spend your whole life waiting for it happens again!

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