Am I annoying him? Is he really into me?
There's this guy. I've known him for 5 years. We even dated for a year and 8 months. At the time he was 16, and I was 15. At that time I was not allowed to date, but I went behind my parents back, and did anyway.
Everything was going great, we got along, never fought, or anything. Well one summer, he went on vacation, and the night he came back, he broke up with me, because we were always getting in trouble, and got caught hanging out together. Well after we broke up, we stopped all forms of communication for 3 years.
About a month ago he messaged me on Facebook, asking how I was. Well we started talking again, and we even met up again. We both have grown a lot over the past 3 years, and really matured. I think I'm falling in love with him again, and he tells me that he has strong feelings for me.
He is now 21, and I'm 20. He is really busy with work, and school lately but I feel like he's annoyed with me. He goes clubbing twice a week, and dances salsa with his girl friends. I don't know how he feels about me. When ever we see each other, there is a lot of chemistry, and we are both so happy, but when it comes to talking to each other, he doesn't talk much. We only message on Facebook for now, but I feel like I'm annoying him, because he doesn't message back that much like he used to.
What do you think? Is he annoyed, or actually into me, but busy?
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Why are men so difficult?
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Threads merged, as there is no need to start another question about the same person.
I need help please. After 3 years of not talking to my ex boyfriend, we reconnected. We have both grown up, and matured. We have been talking about getting back together for a little over a month now. We are still getting to know each other again, and we get along great. He tells me that he wants a relationship with me, but he is waiting for the right time, and that we have to be patient.
I know he means it when he says that, and he's not just saying that. I'm not a patient person, and its hard to wait for something that you really want. We have hung out a couple times, and we kiss, hug, hold hands, and we kind of fooled around. Not really fooling around, but we were on his bed, and making out, and touching. He tried taking my shirt off, but I stopped him, and I know for a fact that he's not wanting me back for sex.
We were together for 1 year, and 8 months, and only had sex twice, but that was 3 years ago. I have a lot of feelings for him, but I feel like he's not into me as much as I am into him. He is transferring to another college in the spring, and he said he wants me to visit him when he goes. (this makes me think that we are going to stay together and that he really does want me) but I'm not patient.
We usually talk everyday, but so far we haven't talked all day. (and I know its only a day, and its not a big deal, but I really miss him). He is probably busy with work, but he got off work 6 hours ago, and still didn't message me or anything. How can I be more patient, and stop waiting around for him to message me. (and don't say try finding a new hobby, or hanging out with friends. I don't have time for that. I'm a full time college student who takes school serious).
I want him back more than anything. I feel like I was trying too hard, but I've slowed down, and I'm trying to stop showing him that I care, but I can't. When we talk I just melt away. Why are guys so hard to understand? How can I be more patient? What do I do?