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  • Sep 20, 2012, 10:34 PM
    Nani das
    Malayalee OBC girl in love with AP Reddy guy
    Hi,

    I am a malayalee (OBC caste) girl. Me and my co-worker, an Andra Pradesh Reddy guy are in love from past 1 year. We know each other very well and want genuinely to marry each other. He is having responsibility to get her sister married. We are planning to tel this matter in our home after her marriage.

    But AP culture is totally differenet from ours, especially Reddys. They are very much bothered about caste, social status etc.. So even if my parents agree, we are sure that his parents will never agree. But, we know that we are the best for each other and feeling too worried if we will have to marry any one else due to parent's force. We knew about all these issues before itself as our friend also faced similar situation and broke up. But, we were unable to stop ourselves from loving, understanding and wishing each other. But, we couldn't make parents sad or crying because of us.

    In his family, no one loved and evenif loved, didn't marry. My life became very dull and depressed due to these tentions. I am not able to do my work also:(

    We had decided to break up previously. But, we still believe that we are made for each other and we will succeed . Is there any way to convince our parents and make them agree?

    Thanks,
    Nani
  • Sep 25, 2012, 12:11 AM
    Nani das
    Please reply to my query... :(

    Daily I am checking...

    Nani...

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