OK, so there's this girl who I think is absolutely amazing. We hang out all the time during summer break and we get along so easily. We've tried hooking up and it didn't go so well. I figured she just wanted to be friends, so that's how its been for a while. She drunk dialed me last night and told me some stuff like how she gets so happy when she talks to me and how she things I'm the best guy ever and whatnot. She's also told me before how she doesn't want a boyfriend though. I don't know what to do. She confuses the hell out of me. Do I ignore her drunk dial and keep how I feel hidden? Or should I tell her how I feel and go for it. I honestly 100% think that this is the girl I could marry, I don't want to mess something like that up and its all that I've been able to think about. Will it freak her out if I tell her how I feel? Help me please, I feel so clueless. I'm a junior in college and so is she, we're both only 21 years old.

I think, though its just an idea, that this girl may have been broken or wounded emotionally in a previous relationship and thus want to take it slow and is very wary this time.

The drunk dialing could either be that she too wants to pursue a romantic relationship, or it was just the alcohol in her speaking.

Just be friends with her, ignore her drunk-calling, and be there for her. Being a girl I can tell you, girls fall for a supporting guy harder than for a stranger hunk!

Honestly if you have the feeling where you can see yourself marrying her.. don't waste any more time ! Tell her that you like her and really care about her. You don't want to lose your chance and if you never say anything you will always wonder what if instead of what actually happened !

You can tell her how you feel and go from there, but do you want to be with someone that has that hard of a time communicating how she feels about you that she can only do it drunk?